Community Guidelines

Allowed use

• Send kind compliments, honest feedback, harmless secrets, crush notes, confessions, and light jokes.
• Use Roast Lite only for playful humor that does not target identity, trauma, disability, body shaming, or personal safety.
• Share your own SayIts.me public link, not someone else’s private inbox link.
• Delete or block messages that make you uncomfortable instead of reposting harmful content for attention.

Not allowed

• Threats, encouragement of self-harm, blackmail, extortion, stalking, doxxing, hate, sexual harassment, or targeted abuse.
• Phone numbers, addresses, private social handles, payment details, passwords, or other personal contact information.
• Spam, scams, phishing links, malware, promotional flooding, fake support messages, or attempts to bypass filters.
• Impersonation, illegal content, non-consensual intimate content, or content involving minors in a sexual or exploitative way.

Mode-specific expectations

Compliment Mode should stay positive. Truth Mode can be honest, but not cruel or threatening. Spill Mode can be dramatic, but it still cannot expose private information. Roast Lite can be funny, but it must not become abuse.

If a message does not fit the selected mode, the platform may reject it or the creator may delete, block, or report it.

Enforcement

We may block messages, limit sending, remove content, close links, or restrict access when the service is used in a harmful way. We may also preserve limited technical signals where needed for security, abuse prevention, or legal compliance.